My Name is Esther and I Share a Bedroom With My Baby Sister…

When Eloise first asked me for her own room I admit that my thoughts immediately went to Esther..her roommate.   I communicated to Eloise I was not comfortable with the displacement of a sister unless another suitable rooming situation that she approved was found for her.  And no, the local animal shelter does not quality.

The only other place Esther could go was to her baby sister’s room. A sister that is nearly 5 year younger than her, still in a crib, gets up at the crack of dawn, and can honestly still smell bad.   I expected Esther to say ‘there is no way I’m rooming with my baby sister’ but instead she said ‘really?! I’m so excited to room with Astrid! She’s so funny!’

 

Problem solved. Eloise got her tween room makeover and a space all of her own and her own door to slam so very soon. May peace be with her.

 

Esther moved into the nursery and their bedroom makeover began.

I told Esther that she could pick the colors but somehow we needed to figure out how to shove them both into this 10×10 space and still have room to walk AND we currently are not in a position to buy new furniture.  Esther said she wanted Caribbean Blue…not just any blue..but Caribbean Blue.  Astrid wanted a room full of Raspberries.

Also I like to keep my children caged up as long as possible so Astrid is still in her crib in this room(thankful that none of my kids ever climbed out of the baby cage) – so when she moves out of that(when she’s 10, right?) we will have to decide if we can swing bunk-beds to help with the space constraints or if we will just have to find another twin somewhere.

They’ve been together now for four months and they love sharing. I thought Astrid’s early waking would bother Esther…but sometimes at 5:30 when I’m downstairs meditating blogging with a bong cup of coffee I hear Astrid wake-up and whisper ‘Esther Esther – can you hear me’ and I always expect to hear ‘Astrid please go back to sleep’ but instead I hear ‘Let me come lift you out of your crib so we can snuggle for awhile.’  Which is followed by soft giggles and sometimes a return to slumber.

When I go upstairs I sometimes find them both as two little spoons dreaming away in a sea of Raspberry Pink and Caribbean Blue.  I bet their dreams are fantastic.

*****

Bedroom Make-over Details:

Colors – Benjamin Moore Seaside Blue and Razzle Dazzle Pink

Astrid’s crib and bedding – existing(Ikea nearly 3 years ago)

Esther’s bed – actually given to us many years ago by my old boss in The Netherlands.

Esther’s duvet - Garnet Hill

Desk – given to us by Kristi

Desk Chair – awesome desk chair from Ikea

Bean Bag – gift from their Auntie Amy from Pottery Barn Teen

Wicker bookshelf – from Pier 1 from like 1989 when I was in college(thank god I trashed the papason chair – raise your hand if you owned a papasan?)

Sheer panels and canopy – clearance from Ikea

We still have some more decorating to do…but all and all I think she’s pretty happy with the results…don’t you?

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About Tracy


My name is Tracy Morrison and I live in sunny Minnesota. I'm neither British nor a nun - I'm just a Midwesterner with a headache. This is mainly a humor and lifestyle blog that documents the lighter side of parenting. I am an ex-corporate ladder climber turned freelance writer, social media manager, and fashion expert - and ruler of my own little universe(very small). Aren't we all. I would love for you to contact me at tracy@sellabitmum.com

75 Responses to My Name is Esther and I Share a Bedroom With My Baby Sister…
  1. Anna
    May 1, 2012 | 9:29 pm

    Looks fantastic! We also moved a middle sister from her two year older sister’s room to her four year younger sibling’s room, but with much less positive results. So now she’s in what was once my study, and so now that I think about it I’m the one who really lost on that one…
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:12 pm

      LOL – Yeah I think you need to get that study back.

  2. Delilah
    May 1, 2012 | 9:34 pm

    Their room looks fantastic! It made me a little teary to read about Esther and Astrid snuggling together. I hope my girls have that kind of bond with each other despite their 6 year age difference.
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:12 pm

      Yes I am so blessed that they all currently get along well. Don’t ask me how it’s going when they are all teens.

  3. Kristin
    May 1, 2012 | 9:44 pm

    Tracy … I always looks forward to your posts. The room is amazing … I love the colors. Do you suppose you could put in the bunk beds NOW, so that I could share the room with the girls? :) Loved the spooning comment … what a joy it is to hear of the bond between them. I love it … Can’t wait to hear/read more …

    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:13 pm

      LOL – they would love to have you join!

  4. darcie
    May 1, 2012 | 9:46 pm

    LOVE it! Love it! LOOOVE IT!
    How do you make a small room look so amazing? Where’s all your stuff?
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:15 pm

      Wide angle lens my friend. And really that is all their stuff. We have one other dresser with art supplies…but that’s it. All big toys are GONE!

  5. Alison@Mama Wants This
    May 1, 2012 | 9:59 pm

    Oh it’s just gorgeous! It looks way bigger than a 10×10 so good job there.

    Love that they snuggle, that’s just the sweetest thing EVAH.

    Some days I just want to go over there and kidnap all your lovely daughters.
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  6. Dana @ Bungalow'56
    May 1, 2012 | 10:15 pm

    It looks great. I love the colour combination. And Esther looks so darn happy. I am ashamed my rooms are not even close to being done. Feel like flying to northern Alberta. I would make you Hot Chocolate with Baileys?
    Dana
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:15 pm

      Saturday works for me! :)

  7. Arnebya
    May 1, 2012 | 10:22 pm

    If their dreams are anything like that room, they are most definitely fantstic. Oh, Tracy, that room is gorgeous. I loved Eloise’s but this…this is stunning. And please. Astrid and Zaid are just a couple months apart; he’s still in the full cage too. None of them climbed out (although he is threatening to be the difference). I figure before he turns 3 in September I’ll convert it to the toddler bed. Until then? He ain’t complainin’.
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  8. Michelle
    May 1, 2012 | 10:34 pm

    That is so cute! My son and daughter shared a room for five years and when we finally carved a space into a tiny house for a third bedroom, it happened to have a connecting window to the room next to it. Our kids begged us not to wall it up and instead kept it open. We could hear them talking to each other through it at night. They are in their teens now, and they are still great friends.
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:17 pm

      Oh that is seriously adorable. I love that they are still great friends. My brother and I shared a room until we were 8 and I sure missed him when he moved into the converted family room. :(

  9. debi9kids
    May 1, 2012 | 10:42 pm

    I love the color choices. Very pretty and vibrant.

    My 2nd oldest son decided he would share with my youngest son when we moved, which meant my twins were no longer rooming together.

    My little twin daughter is now sharing with my oldest daughter :)
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  10. christine
    May 1, 2012 | 11:15 pm

    Awwww. ::sniff:: ::blubber::

    The rooms are beautiful. But the girls? Are gorgeous! On the inside and out. I love that Esther and Astrid snuggle in the morning. Sounds like my kind of wake up. Can I come over and snuggle too?
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  11. Terra Heck
    May 1, 2012 | 11:31 pm

    The room is so pretty. You did a good job with it.
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  12. Elaine
    May 2, 2012 | 12:17 am

    Aww, I just love the part about them snuggling together…

    Once we got our king size we moved our queen into the boys room and even though one of them still has a twin I still find them sleeping together in the bigger bed. So sweet!

    p.s. I posted about K’s room too! :)
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  13. Kimberly
    May 2, 2012 | 12:23 am

    I think you should come help me decorate. It looks gorgeous!
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  14. Lisa
    May 2, 2012 | 1:17 am

    Oh slide on over girls, I’m moving in! I LOVE the room and would feel right at home with those colors. What a sweet little solution for all the girls including their Mama!

  15. AnnJ
    May 2, 2012 | 6:23 am

    It looks like a great room for those two to share. My husband was the baby of 6 (5 boys, 1 girl). He slept in a crib until he was 5 and his oldest brother went away to college. Then there was a space for him. Unfortunately he did learn to crawl out of the crib when he was about 2! You are teaching your girls great skills – getting along, sharing, you don’t have to get everything you want (ie your own room). Great life long lessons.

    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:18 pm

      LOL – 5 – that is adorable.

  16. Elizabeth Flora Ross
    May 2, 2012 | 6:29 am

    Oh my goodness, what an amazing room! It’s gorgeous!

  17. Kristen
    May 2, 2012 | 6:34 am

    Oh, that sweet snuggled time is going to be worth so much as they grow together as sisters. There is so much love between all three of them.
    So glad it gives you more time with your bong too! ;-) xo

  18. Andrea
    May 2, 2012 | 6:40 am

    I love the colors they picked out. My daughter wants purple, and I am not a fan of purple (originally she wanted black, ummm, no.) My son wants his new room to be orange. He’s consistent at any rate seeing as he’s had or wanted an orange room for at least five years now. When (and really at this point it’s looking more like IF) we add another sibling, my daughter wants to share a room with them. I was all for it, but seeing as she could end up with either a 4 yr old brother or a ten month old sister, now I think we’ll make use of that 4th bedroom and give everyone a wee bit of space. My son’s room will be partly orange walls and he got giant Mario Brothers wall stickers for Christmas, so it’s going to be pretty cool in there. My daughter is doing a cowboy theme with word stickers (cowgirl, lasso, other cowboyish terms) and lasso rope and cowboy hats. At least these are the plans, we still have 28 days until we move. They could change their minds.

    Don’t you just love Ikea for kids stuff? I always wanted to buy my kids the little pod chair where you can pull down a curtain across the front like an egg. If they made that in adult size, that’d be awesome.
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:19 pm

      Oh we LOVE the pod chair. We have it in our basement. My girls call it ‘the egg!’

  19. liz
    May 2, 2012 | 6:41 am

    I kept mine in their cages past 3, so I’m with ya!
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  20. Amanda
    May 2, 2012 | 6:43 am

    I have three daughters as well. We have gone through so many arrangements, all three in a room, 2 in a room, each in their own room, back to all together. Now we have a bunkbed set up and a single room next door, they call the single “the private room,” and take turns in it.

    Your descriptions of the soft whispers when Astrid lets Esther know she’s up, you touched on my favorite part of sisters. Oh, those tender moments…between the screeches. Sweet music.
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:20 pm

      Yes I have a feeling that this arrangement is subject to change at any time. I love your solution!

  21. Sabine
    May 2, 2012 | 7:34 am

    LOOOOOVe it. TRACY, where did you get the beautiful artwork..especially the unicorn picture above the book rack and the picture above the rack???????

    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:21 pm

      Hi Sabine – Here is the website! I love her artwork. http://ciciartfactory.com/

      • Sabine
        May 5, 2012 | 7:37 am

        Thanx Tracy…you really should be an interior designer alongside being a photographer….and party planner!!! You are sooo talented!!!!!!

  22. Sabine
    May 2, 2012 | 7:35 am

    Sorry….the picture above the crib I meant……

  23. Galit Breen
    May 2, 2012 | 7:36 am

    Ohmygoodness it’s adorable! Love!!

    (You are going to help us with our girls’ room, right? Right?!)

    xo
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:21 pm

      Oh I would LOVE to do that!

  24. Jackie
    May 2, 2012 | 7:51 am

    What a lovely room Tracy! I never thought Caribbean Blue could look so lovely with raspberries, but how fabulous it is!
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  25. Jessica
    May 2, 2012 | 8:27 am

    WOW I love it! My sister and I were the same age difference as Esther and Astrid – we had our own rooms but moved in together by choice. I still wish we were sharing. Also, please come decorate my house?
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  26. Mark
    May 2, 2012 | 8:47 am

    Thanks for sharing those colors with me. So, you don’t mind if steal them for Claire?
    FYI, we’re moving into a bigger house next month and all she can talk about is painting her room blue. This just might work for her!
    Lovely room and they sound as if they are the perfect roommates. Who knew!
    m.
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:22 pm

      Of course you can – this is a really pretty blue and the pink just gives it a pop of ‘girlie’ xoxo

  27. Amanda M.
    May 2, 2012 | 8:48 am

    Love this room. And I LOVE that A & E are so happy together. That is so sweet. And for the record, I also like to keep my children caged in cribs as long as absolutely possible. :)

    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:23 pm

      None of my girls wanted to move out of their cribs. I finally made Eloise when she was almost three because Esther could no longer fit in the bassinet and Esther only agreed to move out when she was 3.5 when I bought a double bed for Eloise so Esther could sleep with her.

  28. maybaby
    May 2, 2012 | 8:55 am

    Squeal! LOVE what you did with the desk! They are going to make so many wonderful memories in this room, full of hugs and whispers and dreams.
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  29. Barbara
    May 2, 2012 | 9:20 am

    Their room looks incredible!!
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  30. Kimberly
    May 2, 2012 | 9:39 am

    Papason chair – raises hand and blushes. I actually moved it from the basement to my (nearly) 3 year old’s room a couple months ago.
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:24 pm

      LOL – LOVE it!

  31. wendy @ mama one to three
    May 2, 2012 | 9:49 am

    gorgeous girls and room. my three–two girls and a boy–share a pink and green room. poor henry…
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  32. Stacy Uncorked
    May 2, 2012 | 9:50 am

    Wow! That turned out amazing!
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  33. John
    May 2, 2012 | 10:05 am

    I’ve said it before & I’ll say it again, but you’re doing this parenting thing right. I suspect that there won’t even anywhere near the number of door-slamming incidents that you’ll expect.

    And having one kid willingly take care of the other? Well that makes me really happy. And jealous. Really stinking jealous.
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  34. Yuliya
    May 2, 2012 | 10:15 am

    It’s just fabulous! You are the best mommy.
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  35. Paulettle
    May 2, 2012 | 10:33 am

    I love it! You’re girls are such dolls. Seriously. The colors are so fabulous together.
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  36. Suniverse
    May 2, 2012 | 10:36 am

    Notwithstanding what you said about Astrid, this room is so cute I feel like it would SMELL fruity and delicious. Like a Starburst.

    Great job!

  37. Kate
    May 2, 2012 | 10:36 am

    Not only owned a pappasan, but TWO pappasans that we STILL own. One is at the lake, the other is a cat bed in our spare bedroom.

    Love the colors, the room and your middle girl’s enormous heart.
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:25 pm

      Okay – it would be the perfect cat bed…maybe I should’ve kept mine. xo

  38. ML@My3LittleBirds
    May 2, 2012 | 11:34 am

    What a great room for little girls. I love the colors!
    My boys currently share and they are 5 years apart in age. As my oldest approaches tweendom I wonder how long this arrangement will last. For now, it works.
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  39. Lady Jennie
    May 2, 2012 | 11:45 am

    Your kids clearly got your great taste.

    My husband’s third brother (5 boys all together) was relieved when his mom had another baby. He was 5 at the time, I think, and was worried he’d be stuck in the cage forever.
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  40. Jen
    May 2, 2012 | 12:34 pm

    What a beautiful room!
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  41. Jennifer
    May 2, 2012 | 12:54 pm

    Oh gosh, I love that she gets her out of the crib and snuggles with her. That is like the sweetest thing ever.
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  42. julie gardner
    May 2, 2012 | 1:45 pm

    My kids had different bedrooms but slept in the same bunks by choice until Jack was 12 and Karly was 10.

    Really.

    (And it wasn’t even Flowers in the Attic or anything. They just felt safer at night and liked having the other one there.)

    I love love love when siblings share.

    And I wish to the Gods of Decorating that I had your taste.
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  43. Christine @ Love, Life, Surf
    May 2, 2012 | 1:59 pm

    I love their room! Great colors. And the fact that Esther picks Astrid out of her crib and snuggles?? Too cute. Jasper just yells at Everett to be quiet and that he’s not ready to wake up yet. To which Everett responds, “I wanna wake up and I want YOU to wake up too!!!” We too kept the boys caged up as long as possible. I think that the fact that they wore sleepsacks until they were almost 3 might have had something to do with it…
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:26 pm

      Sleepsacks until they are 3 – dying laughing.

  44. Not a Perfect Mom
    May 2, 2012 | 4:34 pm

    it is absolutely gorgeous….
    I think we’re going to buy a new house this summer and the thought of decorating gives me hives….
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  45. Anjie @ Of Pandas and Pirates
    May 2, 2012 | 7:31 pm

    That is so sweet that they snuggle together! What sweet sisters!! I love their room!! It’s so pretty! Great job!
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  46. Marta
    May 2, 2012 | 8:52 pm

    The story of them snuggling in the morning, is absolutely adorable. Absolutely.

    Also, raises both hands, I had TWO of the papasaian chairs. I kind of want one now that you mention it. Loved those things. Especially taking it off its stand and rolling around.
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    • admin
      May 2, 2012 | 9:27 pm

      Hilarious – you deserve another papason I think. lol

  47. Melanie H.
    May 2, 2012 | 11:10 pm

    Just yesterday I saw an ad in a flier for a papasan chair! I actually commented about it to Jeff. I didn’t have one, but he did back in the day.
    Anyway, the room looks A-mazing! And I can’t believe how grown-up Esther looks in that first pic. Such a lovely girl!
    Really beautiful job on the make-over. The room looks so cheery & calming, at the same time, if that’s possible…but a perfect combination!

  48. Jeline
    May 3, 2012 | 12:47 am

    I love the pinky bedroom and I guess most kids would love to have their own rooms in pink like this..
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  49. angela
    May 3, 2012 | 1:44 pm

    It’s so adorable, but I wouldn’t expect anything less from you and your spectacular taste :)
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  50. Elizabeth
    May 3, 2012 | 5:02 pm

    I’m so honored to have my paintings on their wall!!!!! Great color choice by Esther!

    • admin
      May 3, 2012 | 9:59 pm

      They LOVE those paintings!

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