My Reality…

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We planned our trip to New York City for months.  The girls were very excited.  They made their lists of attractions to see..
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The Statue of Liberty

The Empire State Building
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The American Girl Doll Store

Central Park

Times Square and “the ball”
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Tea at the Plaza
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We had almost 4 days to fit it all in, in between of course seeing some family and the wedding – the reason for our trip.
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But what we discovered was – that they are still little girls – and sightseeing at their ages is not all that much fun.  As much as they love the thought of cool buildings.  Seeing these buildings in person – well, they are just buildings.  And sidewalks. And streets. And more buildings. And a HELL of a lot of people to walk through, around, on top off.. And did you know the Statue of Liberty is really small compared to how grand she looks on TV.  According to Esther, she is “this big” (spread your thumb and forefinger apart about 2″).

And when I am still pushing a stroller or holding a screaming baby while pushing a stroller, my hands are not free for taking pictures. Ever.
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And after you wait for an hour and a half and spend $60 to go to the top of the Empire State Building, you hear “mom, all I see are buildings and more buildings – is there more to see? And it is really cold and windy up here – can we go back down.”  So, 45 seconds later – we are back standing in line to descend. With the screaming baby of course.
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And after all of the planning and excitement of the trip to see NYC, the favorite parts for the kids are paying $5 to Mickey Mouse to have your picture taken on the street, getting food from the deli across the street from the hotel, renting a movie and eating popcorn, jumping on the hotel bed, a Ferris wheel ride in a toy store and eating ice cream in front of the library.
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Simple things.  Things we can get at home.  Or perhaps at Disney World someday.
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But for now, I think we will save the “looking at more buildings” trips until they are old enough to appreciate it.
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And just appreciate them for the kids they are and how maybe more movie nights, ice cream cones and bed jumping is better than a trip to New York right now.

About Tracy


My name is Tracy Morrison and I live in sunny Minnesota. I'm neither British nor a nun - I'm just a Midwesterner with a headache. This is mainly a humor and lifestyle blog that documents the lighter side of parenting. I am an ex-corporate ladder climber turned freelance writer, social media manager, and fashion expert - and ruler of my own little universe(very small). Aren't we all. I would love for you to contact me at tracy@sellabitmum.com

13 Responses to My Reality…
  1. Melissa Martin
    October 12, 2010 | 3:07 pm

    Oh my, so been there! At least they did enjoy some of the trip!! Hopefully you got to enjoy some stuff too. Sounds like all in all it was a good time with Family, and that’s what matters!

  2. Karen
    October 12, 2010 | 3:59 pm

    I cannot agree more!!! The last photo you posted with Astrid sleeping in the stroller and the others blurred in the background sums it all up!! Thank you for sharing about your trip.

  3. Molly
    October 12, 2010 | 4:10 pm

    Well my you all look quite the role of the regal family in that first shot.

    But isn’t that the truth. What we think an event or vacation or destination will be is really never what it is.

    I love the last image. Perfect.

  4. Melanie H.
    October 12, 2010 | 4:41 pm

    Wow, you look gorgeous in that first photo! What a stunning picture!
    Amen to everything you said though…sometimes I wonder why we make things so elaborate for our kids…when all they really want is an ice cream cone & to jump on the bed!
    Looks like it was a fun trip though, but I know that it was work for mama & daddy!
    Melanie H. recently posted..Our Summer in Pictures-Third Installment

  5. Tifani
    October 12, 2010 | 5:06 pm

    The last picture kills me. It says so much. And, for what it is worth, remember that big Disney trip we just took? Ask Ella what her favorite part was and she’ll say the ferry that takes you from the resort to the Magic Kingdom. I could have put her on a friend’s party boat here and saved big time.

  6. jen
    October 12, 2010 | 5:42 pm

    our sentiments about our recent nyc trip as well.
    kid’s favorite part? the pool. in the hotel.
    guess next years vacation is going to be much easier …
    and that last picture. LOVE.
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  7. Marnie Cole
    October 12, 2010 | 7:22 pm

    LOVE the last picture! I think you are BRAVE and CRAZY all at the same time. :) Just like our trips to the BEACH. Hotel pool lots easier and begged for by all three.

  8. Dana@Bungalow'56
    October 12, 2010 | 8:36 pm

    The most important thing about this whole post is that you r.o.c.k.e.d the dress you wore to the wedding.
    Dana

  9. tracy
    October 12, 2010 | 9:39 pm

    It is amazing isn’t it that kids just want the simple things. I need to relax a bit and just let them be kids and enjoy more ice cream cones. ..and hope Astrid takes good naps so we can all enjoy life a bit more.

    Thanks, Dana – I love that dress. SUPER sale from JCREW’s wedding department. I love JCREW.
    xoxo,t

  10. darcie
    October 12, 2010 | 10:37 pm

    oh…
    well, kudos to you for trying!

    I love love love to travel – but our kids aren’t the greatest of travelers – yet.
    They will be one day…but…as you just discovered – I’m finding I have to be very careful about what we plan…I mean, why go all the way to San Diego to see the Zoo when there is a perfectly fine (free) one right here in the metro?
    darcie recently posted..Abracadabra! Disney Live Mickeys Magic Show Give Away!!

  11. Momma T.
    October 13, 2010 | 9:36 am

    Okay…the dress…AMAZING!!!!! THe last picture…fabulous. Love, love, love it.

  12. Amanda M.
    October 13, 2010 | 8:55 pm

    Oh yes, we have had a few of those trips with the big plans where the kids were sort of deflated over the big things, but loved the small things….it’s all good, though. But the pics? AMAZING! You are SO beautiful, Tracy!
    Plus seeing Eloise at the Plawza would be the coolest thing ever.
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  13. jo
    October 14, 2010 | 1:04 pm

    or the swimming pool-spent 5 days in rome with 4 girls and all they ever talk about is the swimming pool at the hotel!

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